Comments on: KEEP CONTROL – AVOID AFFAIR DRAMA

By: kt

kt — Mon, 28 Nov 2011 04:42:58 +0000

sometimes divorce is not an option. Im in an affair with a married man who has three children. Before anthing began between us. I tired to help him….but his wife just isnt the sexual type to try new things or have wild sex. She just very up tight and religious. I know he will never leave her for me. And im tottaly fine with that. He cant get jelous if im busy with another guy, its in my terms not his. And it ends when its ran its course. Im in it just for the great sex and no commitment.

By: nina

nina — Fri, 21 Oct 2011 08:58:43 +0000

Hi all,

Im having a affair and its been 2 yrs now i have always been faithfull with my spouse but due to us not getting on and him agnoring me i went on chatting website and met a nice guy whos always there for me on the phone, anyway now ive got feelings for him and tried to end the affair but always go back. Me and my husband are getting on a lot better but he doesnt satify my needs and i find him really boring.

By: David

David — Sun, 17 Jul 2011 18:35:12 +0000

This is a top site for getting advice, I read the comment from Nina and unfortunately she has a valid point as you are suppose to protect your partner, but I also agree with Shaun, If your spouse is not putting out ( if I’m lucky I get it on average once in every 13 months) now my wife goes to the gym 5 to 6 times a week and dresses in nice new cloths at lot I find hidden in the wardrobe or if she wears them and I comment when did you get those nice clothes the response is I’ve had them for ages, so I’ve even joined the same gym as her at her request and for my peace of mind and there doesn’t seem to be anything out of the ordinary, so I’m not to sure if she is having an affair or not but if she’s not and not putting out and I’ve spoken to her about it and the response I get is find someone who will so that is what I intend to do.

By: Affair Advisor

Affair Advisor — Wed, 02 Mar 2011 04:36:01 +0000

This is EXACTLY why we recommend NOT using your home computer. Because of people like you

By: Hue Villareal

Hue Villareal — Sat, 26 Feb 2011 10:47:55 +0000

Hey there, this blog page is wonderful. I really like your threads. Last week, I was actually thinking about if my boyfriend is cheating on me, then I started to follow him using a spy program which I discovered at phonespytool.com . I’m currently listening his telephone calls and checking his sms. There is actually no signals of cheating for now, I think that I shouldn’t blame him.

By: shaun

shaun — Tue, 15 Feb 2011 16:46:36 +0000

Nina, wow you speak lots of useless words.

I take it you have never been in a relationship where you have been ignored for months, where your spouse treats you like shit, or just where you do not get any time for yourself.

Or you just sound jealous that nobody wants to sleep with you?

either way, this website is pretty good. Gives good ideas to those who are seeking help.

By: Nina

Nina — Tue, 01 Feb 2011 06:07:45 +0000

This “How to have an affair” guide shouldn’t even exist! If you say you don’t endorse having affairs, then why on earth are you giving people tips and advices on how to have an affair?

There is absolutely, positively NO EXCUSE to cheat on your spouse! No matter the circumstances! If you’re really unsatisfied with your spouse, then you only have THREE options:

1) If you’re having thoughts about cheating on your spouse, then there’s something missing in your marriage. Whether the problem is sexually, or emotionally or whatever, you should talk to your spouse about these problems and see if you two can work it out! This is why honesty and communication is so important in a relationship.

2) Maybe the problem isn’t your marriage. Maybe the problem is YOU. You probably feel that there’s something missing in your life. Something that you need. Maybe you’re feeling a little mentally or emotionally unstable. I suggest you go to therapy to figure yourself out.

3) File for divorce! If you’re spouse isn’t willing to improve the marriage, then maybe it’s time to file for divorce and find someone else who will meet your needs.

Now, if you’re a smart, honest, mature person with integrity, then you should consider these options instead of going behind their backs and cheat like stupid cowards!

Cheating is selfish, inconsiderate and downright disgusting. You’re suppose to love your spouse, and protect them and keep them safe….not to lie to them, deceive them, and betray them. It’s not fair to your spouse. Your spouse deserves to be treated with respect.

If you’re currently having an affair, then you should be ashamed of yourself. Your spouse is out there believing that you’re a faithful, trust-worthy person…when you’re not. Your marriage may not be “ideal”, but marriage is NOT about perfection. It’s about making compromises and putting efforts. Marriage is about trust and commitment. How dare you break your wedding vows? Does your marriage mean anything to you? Do you really want to risk your marriage? To risk your spouse’s feelings? Just think about the excruciating pain that your spouse will feel in the heart when he/she finds out! You can try to hide your affair, but sooner or later, the truth WILL come out and you will suffer the consequences. Your spouse will finally see the lying, cheating scum that you are. He/she doesn’t deserve you. If you really love your spouse and you really want to be honest, then I strong suggest you confess to him/her. At least your spouse will be proud of you for confessing. And who know? You might even get a 2nd chance.

Having an affair should NEVER be an option! There are thousands of people out there who spend their whole lives trying to find someone to love and to be loved. So you should feel extremely lucky to be married to someone you love, and to someone who loves you back. Why is it worth risking it?

By: Annabell Darugar

Annabell Darugar — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 11:30:20 +0000

I love adult dating through adult dating sites it is so flexible. Also as you say shows so much safer especially for women.