You will need to identify ONE computer for all of your interactions. In a perfect world, this this would be one your spouse doesn’t have access to. Popular choices include internet cafe’s, work computers or library computers.
1) Download a new Internet browser. Learn to use history masking tools. Why? Because nothing says ‘cheating on me’ more than seeing a site like ‘www.marriedaffairguide.com’ in the history of sites you’ve visited. If your primary browser is Internet Explorer, download Firefox or Google’s Chrome. Do NOT make this your default browser. If fact, when it asks you to become your default browser, make sure you say ‘No’ to it.
If you choose Firefox, download the Steatlher plugin. If you choose Google Chrome, it already comes built-in with something called ‘incognito’ mode.
We recommend Chrome over Firefox, because it lets you open new links from an existing window using ‘incognito mode’; however either will do just fine.
To see how Google Chrome works in incognito mode, see this support article from Google.
Ideally, you’ll want to install this browser and hide it. You’ll need to delete it from the following locations:
A) Desktop – Right-click the shortcut icon, and click delete.
B) Quick Launch Bar – Right-click the quick launch icon, and click delete.
C) Program List - Right-click the program icon, and click delete.
When starting this browser, do it from it’s hidden location. For example, if you installed Firefox, you would start it by navigating to: C:\Program Files\Mozilla Firefox\firefox.exe
2) Setup a new Gmail account (www.gmail.com). You’ll need email to meet people, especially if you’re going to look for partners on adult dating sites. Never give your real email out. Never access this new email account from anything except your newly downloaded internet browser, in private mode, and from the one computer you chose for your affair tasks. Make SURE that you use a different name. Use a full name to keep authenticity. Create a name that resembles someone you see on an infrequent basis, lives far away and is not known to your spouse. This way, it doesn’t raise suspicions if it pops up on the computer by mistake – like when your spouse is typing in a username.
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