Avoiding drama is an essential part of a successful affair. Drama increases risk. It surfaces when emotions get mixed into your affair.
How do you avoid drama from surfacing in your affair? You avoid or drop situations when you feel that strong emotions are surfacing. Included in the strong emotions realm are: jealousy, love and obsession.
It is for this single reason that we recommend short-terms affairs over long term affairs. Short-term affairs have a clear advantage: emotions don’t develop too quickly. In a short-term affair, the cornerstone of the whole relationship is sex. In a long-term affair, this cornerstone shifts from sex to a tangled web of emotions. In general, this leads you from being in one complicated situation with your spouse, to being in two complicated situations.
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