The main goal of this guide is for you to learn to hide your intentions and actions from your spouse. In order to do this, we must first understand how people get caught having an affair.
Suspicion from your spouse is the main trigger for getting caught. Once your spouse starts suspecting that you’re withholding something, they initiate schemes to find out exactly what that something is.
At it’s simplest, this means checking your email and phone / SMS records. At it’s worse, you have to deal with a private investigator following you around.
In general, anything that’s an electronic device is both your friend and your enemy. You need it to achieve your goals, yet it can be used to ‘out’ you.
Therefore, the idea is to know how for this initial suspicion to never materialize.
The most common ways of getting caught are:
REASON #1 – YOUR COMPUTER AND IT’S HISTORY
We need to discuss computers. They do wonderful things. They also RECORD EVERYTHING that you do, genius. Specifically, they keep history of sited visited, and retain usernames & passwords for ease if login to various sites.
In the affair context, this is the equivalent of having a private investigator on your tail ALL THE TIME.
When your spouse uses your family computer, and sees a link like ‘www.marriedaffairguide.com’, what do you think happens?
Your spouse’s suspicion level increases.
Read on how to hide your moves on the computer here.
REASON #2 – YOUR PHONE AND IT’S HISTORY
So you thought your spouse respected your privacy? Think again. Over 75% of people in relationships have admitted to secretly checking their better-half’s phone call history and SMS history. If we weren’t clear before, we’ll say it again. A phone is like a little computer. It RECORDS EVERYTHING.
While not as explicit as the computer, people get caught having an affair because:
1) They forget to clear their call and SMS history.
2) Get calls from someone while with their spouse. Spouse checks phone after you’re asleep. It’s not ‘work calling’.
3) Repeated hangups on your home phone, followed by your cell phone ringing.
Your cell phone is a huge risk to you when having an affair.
When your spouse eventually checks your cell phone, and sees a few calls from a number when you were supposed to be ‘working late’, you’re in trouble.
Your spouse’s suspicion level increases.
Read on how to hide your calls and SMS message here.
REASON #3 – RECEIPTS & FINANCIAL STATEMENTS
Receipts are dangerous. Again, when you’re supposed to be ‘working’ late, and your spouse finds a receipt from the Olive Garden in one of your pockets, suspicion rises.
Similarly, any financial statements you receive at home get examined with a similar level of scrutiny.
Read on how to hide your affair’s … financial affairs … here.
REASON #4 – THE VISUAL & OLFACTORY SENSES
Clothes. You come home smelling of Channel No5 once, you can say that ‘you ran into Jenny from high-school’. When this happens every few days, you’re in trouble. Ladies: pay attention! Men have a tendency to overdo it with cologne.
The same goes for coming home with visual marks.
Men: Watch for lipstick, white deodorant marks on your jacket (not yours, dummy!), hickeys, bite marks and scratch marks.
Women: Watch for hickeys, bite marks , scratch marks, hand marks on your butt of any other ‘rough sex’ activity.
We can’t do much if you have physical marks when you get home. However, we can help you with the clothes situation.
Read on how to deal with affair dating clothes here.
Understand that people continuously leave items behind. According to some researchers, it’s a way to mark territory. to you, it’s called a RISK.
Many people get caught having an affair because of forgotten items in a car. A pair of earrings, a forgotten cell phone, a briefcase. We’ve heard it all.
Learn to go through your car BEFORE getting home, and you’ll be just fine.
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