Finding partners for an affair is pretty easy. Finding the right affair partner is a little trickier.
There’s a ton of places that can be explored for finding partners, but none as good as the internet.
Finding affair partners on the internet has its advantages. For one, you can screen applicants. Secondly, there’s a measure of anonymity that’s preserved when doing partner searches online. Third, and MOST IMPORTANTLY, if you follow our stealthy computer advice, you can completely hide any of your affair intentions from your spouse.
We have tested and reviewed the sites below for efficiency in finding affair suitors. Our recommended strategy however is to rotate through the sites weekly. You don’t want to have your information up on a site for too long as the risks of your spouse or someone you know finding you go higher the longer you stay on the same site. Additionally you also will quickly stale out the candidates. So our strategy is to use multiple sites and keep see sawing across them. A lot of people have “longer term” affairs, this is bad bad bad… you don’t want to run ANY RISK of emotional attachment, creating patterns, divulging too much information.
When it comes to ‘affair online dating sites’, it’s pretty simple, you have there type of sites: Adult Dating Sites, Affair Dating Sites and Regular (Singles) Dating Sites.
Finding partners for an affair is pretty easy. Finding the right affair partner is a little trickier.
These are definitely the best for anyone looking for an affair. Adult online dating sites are essentially the same as dating sites – however, they focus on matching members that are interested mainly in sexual adventures. We’ve seen that the bulk of people on these sites essentially don’t really care whether you’re married or not. The emphasis is more around hooking-up and having a good time rather than spending a lifetime of “getting to know each other”.
The best adult dating sites are the ones we’ve outlined below. They have been around for awhile and have built good reputations for having good billing practices and cancellation policies if you don’t end up liking them. The ratio of men to women is skewed (you’ll ind this everywhere) – it’s worth checking out even more than pure affair dating sites (see section below).
Adult online dating sites are essentially the same as dating sites – however, they focus on matching members that are interested mainly in sexual adventures. We’ve seen that the bulk of people on these sites essentially don’t really care whether you’re married or not. The emphasis is more around hooking-up and having a good time.
By far, the two best sites we’ve used are:
AdultFriendFinder.com has been around for quite some time. The site has been a pillar of the adult dating industry and has provided ‘get laid’ services for quite some time. You’ll find a lot of people on AFF – some wanting to deal with married people, others not so much – in general, we’ve found that on AFF, you can get away with an affair partner – as long as you’re honest about it.
Here’s a complete review from a buddy’s site: The HookupOnlineGuide.com AdultFriendFinder Review.
This site focuses on sexual compatibility. It has good and bad parts – as with AFF, you need to be 100% honest to avoid affair drama. A gold mine for those of us looking for sex-only affairs. Read the HOG (friend’s site – too long to type) GetItOn Review to get a sense of this site.
We put this one in – WE DO NOT THINK THIS IS FOR EVERYONE. But – it is funny FUNNY – at least at the beginning. Rather, this site is for those of you who are really into fetish sites and alternative lifestyle stuff. These guys have an ALT.com review that was posted in April that is both HILARIOUS to read and also provides a good base info for those that are getting / are into an alternative lifestyle.
At a bare minimum it’ll make you laugh. Read it for fun, if anything 
It’s a fucking funny read!
There are about a million affair dating sites out there. It’s a big business, especially to lure men to pay a fee. So a lot of sites misrepresent themselves quite a bit. You’ll find a slew of sites that essentially promise affairs, but can’t deliver one woman. Many use ‘shills’ – which is an online marketing term for a fake person. For example – you signup and you start getting these ‘emails’ from ‘women’ or ‘men’ wanting to meet / chat with you – something you can do only if you purchase a membership. As soon as you signup and pay – the emails stop and your replies go unanswered. We’ve found 3 good sites that are worth checking out – they are good sites and have been established for quite some time. They have more men than women (as usual), but at least the women are real.
These are sites like AshleyMadison.com, MarriedDateLink.com and LonelyWifeHookup. Specifically, these sites are specialized in people that are ‘married but dating’. The concept is simple. Our position on these sites is open to debate. Why? We’ve had some bad experiences with a few of them.
At it’s base, It’s a set of people that are (A) married and (B) not having as much sex they want to have. These sites focus on discretion, but you still need to be smart about how to go about it if you decide to use one of them.
We strongly recommend that should you have to pick, choose from Adult Dating Sites. But if you decide to use one of these (reputable) sites below, you should use one of the following services:
A household name in married affairs, this site is by far the best we’ve found. Serious people wanting an affair should look here first.
AshleyMadison.com is one of our top choices for affair sites. It is exclusively designed to find other attached people who have decided the same route. Find an affair without disrupting the current status quo. There are over 4.5 million members at Ashley Madison, and almost all of them are there to date outside of the relationship. The service makes it absolutely clear that it exists for just that reason. Still, you will find a few singles looking for relationships with other singles.. Creating a Profile includes private and public profiles.
AshleyMadison.com enables anonymity. You can use any regular credit / debit card to buy credits on this site. You get billed under a different name – which is good and stealthy. The site supports IM / Winking & messages – however, the site is more expensive than most. You have to use credits for each message.
Our advice on the AM.com picture features:
A popular American site with typical dating features of profiles, winks etc. We haven’t had a ton of sucess with it, but have heard good things about it. The estimated number of active members using this site is 840 000. Cost discounts are offered for signing up for longer periods.
Another simple and easy to use site with a lot of risqué and tempting offers. Create a profile to get things rolling for free, if you see someone you like, hit them up and get it on. Make sure you read our advice on what to post in a profile before you sign up.
Singles online dating sites are the most commonly found online – they also require the most effort from your part. Most users frequenting these sites are looking for a serious relationship and not a fling with a married person. For this reason, we recommend you avoid these sites. In general, you’ll find yourself having to lie about your marital situation; and about why you can’t be available at the other person’s every whim.
You’ll recognize these sites easily. Some examples include ‘eharmony.com‘, and ‘lavalife.com‘. These sites are a lot of effort, for little reward. People on these sites are looking for a serious relationship more than a fling.
