A key component of meeting others wanting affairs will be the way you build your online adult / affair dating profile. The next logical step is to understand what makes a good dating profile.
Here’s a list of do’s and don’ts of profile building for your online profile. We’re not posting profile examples because our recommended sites would feature all of you using the same profile information. Rather, we wanted to explain a few profile building rules to follow rigorously.
DON’T – Talk about your marriage / relationship
People go to affair sites to escape from their relationship and experience some excitement. They want to have fun and explore some unfulfilled fantasies. They don’t go visit these sites to read about why you’re doing this. You’re all there for the same reason, so leave the baggage behind.
DON’T – Say things like ‘I’m not sure why I’m on this site”
You know exactly why you’re there. So do the others. Drop the innocent act. It doesn’t fool anyone. In fact, it turns people off. Don’t hide behind veils. Accept that you’ve made the move into the land of the unfaithful and play the field like a pro. Regretting something you haven’t done is a major turn off.
DON’T – Use your real name / email / phone – EVER
This is an important one. We strongly suggest that you DO NOT use your real contact information at any point.
DO – Post good pictures – face shots are optional
In the online adult / affair dating world, good pictures are half the game. People don’t sleep with someone they find unattractive. This is especially true if it’s a casual fling outside of your marriage.
We can’t stress enough the importance of your profile picture, and any other pictures you post. Initial decisions on whether or not to reply to your first advances are entirely dependent on how good you look in your profile picture, followed on how interesting your remaining pictures are.
The profile picture you choose should not be just of your face. Out of 100 people we interviewed, 95 said that they eliminate people that put up pictures of their face only. And they don’t even consider a profile that doesn’t have a picture attached to it. If you don’t show an indication of body type, you’re out.
To maximize your chances of passing this initial picture screening, you need to post a quality picture, clearly showing your upper body and ideally, your face. You should be smiling and relaxed. Picture quality is important, so swap your crappy mobile phone camera for a real digital camera and ask a friend to help.
If you’re camera shy or a little scared to post a face picture, you have options.
You can take good pictures that highlight your body, and blur out your face. This is a pretty common tactic on adult and affair dating sites.
DO – Promise a good time
Remember why you want to have an affair? Others are likely in the same position as you. In your interactions with prospective partners and in your profile, you should maximize promises of how good of a time people will have when being around you. No one wants to have a fling with a down, depressed or insecure person.
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